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If your partner catches you cheating on them, there are certain things that you can do to help minimize the pain and the damage to your relationship, especially if you’re truly sorry.
Hide the evidence
It will only make them feel worse. Keeping reminders of your affair isn’t healthy for anyone. If you want to have a happy, healthy relationship, it’ll require a cleanse, so to speak. Love yourself enough to get rid of everything related to the affair.
Don’t try to go back to how things were
Something needs to change for you and your partner to move forward; how things were obviously wasn’t working, otherwise, you wouldn’t have been caught cheating. Get used to the ‘new normal’ and settle in for the long haul.
Own up to it
All the lies and covering up make the situation much more difficult to move on from. So, why not just come clean? Understand that your partner is in shock, and give them some space and time while making yourself available to answer any questions they might have.
If you try to ignore or lie about your unfaithfulness and infidelity, you’ll only cause your partner more hurt, resentment, and damage.
Decide Who You Want To Be With
It’s extremely important for the partner who betrayed to look inside himself to have a deeper sense of why the affair began in the first place. You should make the final decision on whether you want to continue with the relationship or not.
Go For counselling
Counseling can help you communicate better and it will give you peace of mind knowing that you tried to make things work if you do decide to step away from your partner and relationship.
Posted by grandybigs on 11 Dec 2018, 5:31 PM